TWO-MINUTE READS: The First Dance and Popular Song Choices.

The first dance at a wedding reception is such a cherished tradition! It's a beautiful moment where newlyweds share their first dance, symbolising their special union. It marks the transition from the formal wedding activities to a joyful celebration, giving guests a chance to see the couple's first dance as a married pair.

Symbolism: The first dance is not just a dance; it presents the newlyweds to their guests, signifying the start of both their reception and their new married life, as noted by Function Central.

Timing: Usually, it takes place after the wedding breakfast and right before the dance floor opens up for everyone to join in on the fun.

Choice of Dance: Couples can choose a sweet, slow dance, a choreographed routine, or a style that truly reflects their unique relationship.

Guest Involvement: This moment is typically reserved for the couple, but it has become increasingly common for them to invite guests to join in partway through the song, adding to the joy of the occasion. At my daughter’s wedding, I ‘interrupted’ the newlyweds, dancing with her on my own for a while, with other guests joining in later.

Popular first dance songs at weddings include classics like "At Last" by Etta James, "Perfect" by Ed Sheeran, and "Can't Help Falling in Love" by Elvis Presley. Modern favourites are "All of Me" by John Legend and "A Thousand Years" by Christina Perri, along with "Thinking Out Loud" by Ed Sheeran, "You Are The Best Thing" by Ray Lamontagne, and "Lover" by Taylor Swift.

Here's a more detailed look at some of the top picks:

Timeless Classics:

"At Last" by Etta James: A classic choice known for its romantic and elegant feel, according to Function Central.

"Can't Help Falling in Love" by Elvis Presley: A beloved song that has seen a resurgence in popularity, according to The Knot.

Modern Hits:

"Perfect" by Ed Sheeran: A highly popular choice for its romantic lyrics and melody.

"All of Me" by John Legend: Another popular choice with meaningful lyrics about love and commitment.

"A Thousand Years" by Christina Perri: Many couples have come to love this beautiful and emotional song.

"Lover" by Taylor Swift: A contemporary option perfect for a slow dance, according to Function Central.

Other Popular Options:

"Thinking Out Loud" by Ed Sheeran: A romantic song that is a favourite for many couples.

"You Are The Best Thing" by Ray Lamontagne: Encore Musicians suggests that the upbeat and joyful feel of this song is a popular choice.

"Marry Me" by Train: Another upbeat and popular choice, according to 30 Day Singer.

Celebrity First Dance Songs Include:

David & Victoria Beckham: "It Had To Be You" by Frank Sinatra (The Starlight Orchestra).

George Clooney & Amal Alamuddin: "Why Shouldn't I" by Cole Porter. (13 Best Celebrity First Dance Songs – Brides.)

Barack & Michelle Obama: "You & I" by Stevie Wonder.

Kim Kardashian & Kanye West: "All of Me" by John Legend.

Eva Longoria & José Antonio Bastón: "Volvi a Nacer" by Carlos Vives.

In Summary:

The perfect song for you both depends on what you enjoy and how you connect as a couple. Take some time to consider the lyrics, melody, and the overall vibe when making your choice. It's all about finding what resonates with you!